What to expect
How we talk, how I keep this private, and what I ask of you in return.
How we talk
It runs in the background of both our days, not on a timetable.
How does the texting work?
You’ll reach me on the personal phone I carry with me every day—not a separate phone I rarely check. I want the people in my circle to feel like part of my real life, so you can write whenever you want and I’ll respond naturally throughout my day.
How fast do you answer?
Most days, often. Some days, later. I'd rather answer you properly in the evening than send you something hollow at noon.
When do the videos arrive?
Once a week, made for you. The best ones come from something you told me earlier that week, so I don't force a schedule on them.
Ten to twenty minutes, face to face
The deepest level of access I offer, and the one I give out least.
What is it?
Ten to twenty private minutes with me on live video, once a week, at a time we agree on. Unhurried, just us.
How do I get it?
Ask me. It isn't a box you check — we'll talk about whether the timing and the fit are right.
What I ask of you
Warmth and manners. That's genuinely most of it.
How should I talk to you?
Like a person you're glad to know. I'm generous with people who are generous back, and quick to step away from anyone who isn't.
Where are your boundaries?
I'll be clear about them as they come up, and I don't move them under pressure. Nothing here is explicit. Asking twice ends the conversation.
This stays between us
Both directions. It's the foundation the whole circle sits on.
How private is this?
Completely. I never share your name, your messages, or anything about you with anyone.
And in return?
What I make for you is yours to keep and no one else's to see.
Nothing is handled on this site
No checkout, no charge, no small print.
How is payment handled?
Not here. Nothing is charged when you apply. Once you're accepted, I walk you through everything personally.
How long does a place last?
As long as it's good for both of us. It's weekly, not a commitment you have to argue your way out of.
If that all sounds like you, I’d like to hear from you.
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